I've been dating a guy now for a few months.. I really like him but I also kinda have a crush on his friend who is a lot more like me and also closer to my age (I'm 18, the guy I'm dating is 23) I don't know what to do — Anonymous

Thank you for sharing your situation. It’s up to you what you decide to do in any relationship. The general idea is to be with someone who really makes sense to you and is a good fit.

Perhaps you might think about what type of relationship you want and what kind of person you want to be with. Think in terms of what’s important to you, who will help you treat yourself well and live positively. Weigh the positives and negatives of any choice you make. Regardless of what you decide to do, make sure you always talk kindly and gently with the people involved.

Remember that you (and other people) deserve to be in a relationship with someone who appreciates the real you and is a good match for you. Take care. 

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