Hey, so long story short. Fell so hard for a guy about a year ago, but by summer we had decided to just be friends because we were so busy. Things fell so easily into place before, it was amazing. We share similar values, hobbies and lifestyle but live a little ways away from each other (not a big deal). I have not moved on, and I don't think he has either. It seems like he likes me as well, still. What should I do about it ? Should I do anything? He is still important to me. — Anonymous
Thank you for sharing your situation. It’s up to you to decide what kind of relationship you want. Perhaps you might find it helpful to have some calm and kind conversations with each other to find out what’s going on. Ask each other questions and listen carefully to each other. Keep it calm and friendly and just learn about each other.
It’s OK to share your thoughts and feelings with him and ask him about his. Make sure you listen to what he says and watch what he does so you can decide if things are working for you. The more you talk with him the better idea you’ll have about what you want to do next. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who is interested in you and values your feelings. Take care.
