I was hanging out with this really sweet shy guy since May, but we stopped talking in November because I was just really immature and scared, I thought I had to play "hard to get". I gave him the impression I wasn't interested in him. Anyways yesterday I called him and asked if he was home because I was at a going away party on his street and wanted to talk to him. He was out and then texted me he was dating somone now. I asked how his night was, he didn't respond. Help please, any advice :( — peppermintgingerchew
Thank you for sharing your situation. It’s hard when you look back on a relationship and wish you had done something differently. The good part is that it gives you an opportunity to behave differently in the future. You might want to take some time to think about what worked and what didn’t work and then adjust accordingly in the future.
It’s OK to make mistakes, the important point is to learn from what happened in the past. As far as reaching out to him, you get to decide if you want to contact him again. If he isn’t interested, you’re still a great person. Regardless of his response, you get to take your new knowledge and build stronger relationships in the future.
Keep working on being the happiest, healthiest you possible and you’ll attract nice people who appreciate who you are. You’re worth it. Take care.
