Nearly everyday I get coffee at my schools coffee shop. One day last week, the guy who usually take my order wrote a note on the side that said " You have lovely smile". What is the next step I should take with this? Should I say something to him the next time he takes my order or just let it go? — Anonymous
Thank you for sharing your situation. It’s up to you to decide what you want to do in any relationship. If you’re interested, you can follow-up in some way; if not, then you don’t have to. The key is to be open and clear with the person so you avoid misunderstandings.
You might find it helpful to take some time to think about what you want to do. It’s always beneficial to be yourself, be friendly and move at your own pace. It’s also OK to just get to know someone as a friend before making any major decisions. Remember that you deserve to proceed in any way that makes you comfortable and helps you take care of yourself. Take care.
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jaclynxhyde said:
if i were interested, i’d go back and leave him a note, giving him a compliment as well, with my name on it and asking out for a lunch… =] but that’s just me…
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