So this isn't really a "relationship" question, as much as it is an advise question. I'm constantly friend-zoned. This past semester I was friend-zoned by 4 guys. I'm not sure what I do wrong. I know I'm not the most attractive girl, but I'm in relatively decent shape and I'm pretty open. I'm not sure what more I can do to get out of the friend-zone. — Anonymous
Thank you for sharing your situation. Building a romantic relationship is about meeting people who appreciate who you are. One of the best ways to meet individuals who genuinely want to be with you is to be yourself. Do things you love, keep growing as a person, plan your future, celebrate yourself and hang out with people who value the real you.
One of the biggest lessons in life is that if someone doesn’t like you, then it’s actually better not to have a relationship with them because it’s not likely to go very well. A more positive path is to be yourself and live a wonderful life. That way, you’ll attract people who really enjoy being with someone like you and will treat you like the important person you are.
Remember to keep being your wonderful self and the people who are meant to be in your life will eventually present themselves. Take care.
