March 2012
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Relationship Advice Resource
Although I’m no longer posting on this blog, it’s still a useful relationship advice resource. Please feel free to search and explore the hundreds of relationship questions and answers on this blog for help on your particular relationship situation.
I want to thank all the wonderful people who’ve had the courage to share their deeply personal situations. I know you’ll...
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Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfriend split up 9 months ago we were together for 5months but were best friends for 3 years. He split up with me and it took me ages to get over him because we lost our friendship too. But he's always in and out of my life he still gets jealous over other boys and always shows me signs he's still interested he says he misses me and that he'll never find anyone like me...
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Anonymous asked: I've been hanging out/casual dating this guy for a month now, and he's lead me to believe it was going somewhere and that he enjoyed spending time with me. We have a lot in common and I've told him already that I liked him. He went away on vacation, but kissed me before leaving, and while he was gone he kept telling me how excited he was to see me again. The day he got back he...
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Anonymous asked: So, Me and this guy got into an fight last night because he got upset that he feels like i don't trust him. A lot of things have happened in the past that would make me not trust him and sometimes i do question him and don't completely trust him. He won't speak to me now and I would like to know what I can do to get him to forgive me and fix things.
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Anonymous asked: Hi, so there is this guy I'm interested in and he's about 3 years older than me and is not the best looking guy but I'm not the best looking girl either, He plays on the local hockey team and I go to every game, he's apparently been "texting" this other girl who has a boyfriend on his team. I don't know how to build up the courage and introduce myself or spark up...
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The Relationship Situation
Before the “break” I was in an international long distance relationship for four years. We had met each other for the week in which I had stayed overseas with him. There was never any concern with either of us whether there was infidelity, adultery or anything of that likeness. Our relationship was strong. Communication, and devotion. He made a hold on the...
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Anonymous asked: I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half months about 3 days ago, I'm 18 and he's 24. It was a short time, but I really do love him, but he got controlling and manipulative and it was just getting to be too much and too overbearing. I wrote him a note telling him how I felt about him and that I just couldn't be with him, changed my relationship status and picture on...
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Anonymous asked: How do you deal with jealousy in a Long distance relationship? I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for two years and I sometimes find myself jealous of the individuals who do get to spend time with him. This is taking a toll on our relationship, because he doesn't understand my feelings. When I try to explain it to him I tell him that I trust that he's not going to cheat on me, it...
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Anonymous asked: I met this guy back in September and we became very close very fast. He cheated on her with me. He apologized a thousand times because he loves his girlfriend, but things became awkward. I used to be depressed and still have pieces of that with me, so it's really hard for me to come up and talk. He usually avoids deep conversations, but lately he's been trying to get me to spill it the...
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Anonymous asked: I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend. Sure I have kissed boys before, but only for spin the bottle or other stupid stuff at parties. I just don't know how to put myself out there, and I don't think I will ever find someone:( Any advice?
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Anonymous asked: My current boyfriend is not friends with any of his exs, he actually hates them all, Should this be a red flag? I feel like it is. Whenever I ask ablut them he only has really bad things to say.
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Anonymous asked: I met this really nice guy a few days ago, we have been talking a lot the last few days and he is really nice. He asked me out in a date, and I said yes. The only problem is that he's 11 years older than me (I'm 20 and he's 31), I'm not shure what to think about the age difference.. Is it foolish of me to date him?
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Anonymous asked: I am in a long term relationship and my boyfriend is constantly saying things like ' Babe I'm so bored of life' ' I wish my life was more exciting, I feel so dead and bored all the time' I feel like I'm in a rut' I feel as if I'm not doing enough as a girlfriend to make life less boring for him, do you have any suggestions as to how I can make things more ...
February 2012
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Anonymous asked: I've been with my boyfriend for about a month and I really like him but I'm always first to talk or to text him ect, it makes me feel like I annoy him. He's been talking to me less and less recently, I feel like he's loosing intrest in me. What can I do to keep us together? Thanks x
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Relationship Advice - The Quick Fix
In any healthy relationship, the people involved are willing to take the time and effort to work on issues together. It’s a long process that requires taking a look at your behaviors and making small changes that will lead the relationship in a different direction.
Many people encounter difficulties in their relationships and try to resolve them with a quick fix. This leads to solutions...
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Anonymous asked: I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months this month, and I really do love him, I just can't help but feel like the spark's gone or something. He's asexual and I kind of have intimacy issues, so it's not that or anything, but I just feel kind of bored with the relationship and don't know what to do =/ Neither of us are any...
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I are crazy about each other, but I have a really hard time talking to him about my feelings. He has ADD and I have depression, so where he's used to feeling manic I usually feel immensely sad. He doesn't understand that, or what it feels like, or how it works, and even though he wants me to talk to him when I'm feeling like that and means well, every time I do he...
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Anonymous asked: whats your opinion on friends with benefits?
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Anonymous asked: So I am left confused. My ex broke up with me twice. !st time stating we are way to different but still had feelings for me. Last time she said she wasnt sure of her feelings. I wanted some closure and asked her the faithful question why,she said I wasnt what she wanted.we have the same group of friends so we r cordial. Anyway couple weeks ago she has been very affectionate and we hooked up 2x,...
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Anonymous asked: In your opinion/experience, if a guy cheats on his current girl, and goes to be with the girl he cheated with, what are the chances of him cheating on her too? I was the other woman with my boyfriend, and now we are both in love with each other but they say once a cheater always a cheater and I know what I did wasn't right but I don't want to be cheated on.
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Anonymous asked: After alot of up and downs the girl ive been in a relationship has decided she needs her space and time. Ive realized that i have been a bit pushy and pressuring her so ive stopped. She recently decided to take her space and as respect for her decision havent spoke to her in a week. But heres where its weird. In this past week and that prior her and my sister have been hanging out alot recently....
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Anonymous asked: My best friend who is 21 is engaged to be married this May to her boyfriend of 4 years who is a high school drop out and joined the Army. They love each other but its so obvious that they should not be rushing this marriage because their relationship is no where near perfect. They fight almost every week and they have no financial stability. The wedding is paid for and all planned but I just...
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Anonymous asked: Over the past four years, this guy and I have been really good friends, and have liked each other off an on. Earlier this year, we started dating. We dated for three months, and were very happy, until he randomly broke up with me because he was stressed and didn't have time for me. When I tried to be friendly, he told me to back off. So I did and now we haven't spoken in weeks and I just...
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Anonymous asked: I recently met a guy & we've been spending a lot of time together lately.. He just confessed to me, that he likes me via text message. He was planning on telling me in person, but we missed each other. Now he's gone for a weekend, and there is no way I can reach him. How can I tell him on monday that I dont want a relationship, but dont want our friendship to end either? How can I...
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Anonymous asked: No matter what I do, it feels like I can never meet anyone. The most interaction I have with a male is maybe a text from an old friend a couple times a week. How/where can I meet someone who's worth it?
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tiatamjam asked: I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year now, although we broke up for a couple months over the summer. The problem is we broke up the first time because he wasn't giving me enough attention and I felt like I was the only one putting in effort. We got back together because he told me numerous times that he's changed. But now I'm feeling the exact same way as...
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srp11 asked: So me and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and of course I'm hurting real bad. We're both college freshman from the same state, different town. He was such a nice caring guy in the beginning of our relationship and turned into a complete jerk. We fought constantly and i find it hard to play it off when he's all over social networks saying how much of a good time he's...
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Anonymous asked: I've been out with quite a few people, but recently I went out with the best guy ever, he was the first person I actually LOVED rather than just liked.. he dumped me, and now I can't seem to get over him. we never text anymore either. I want to start talking again but I don't know how to do it subtly
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swanseajack94 asked: Me and this girl were best friends for about a year, then we got together and it was an amazing relationship. I fell in love with her, and she said she loved me. Then, I didn't see her for 3 months because of family issues, etc.. then one day, she said she needs to be alone and needs to focus on her exams and family, and that she doesn't feel she makes me happy anymore. She said she...
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Anonymous asked: She was my first girlfriend, we are both girls in a LDR. We've been together for 6 months but she recently broke up with me because she said she doesn't like me that way any more. But when I asked her to tell me the truth, she said she's afraid of everything and I think she just won't accept the fact that she likes a girl. I miss her a lot and we decided to stop talking for a...
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Anonymous asked: I feel like I may be becoming "one of the guys" within a group of my guy friends. I know they see me as a girl, but because we are all so comfortable with each other, I feel like that line may be blurred sometimes. I really like one of the guys in the group, and have growing feelings towards another one. I want to keep our friendship, obviously, but I don't want them to lose sight...
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lovekanisa asked: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. He is 40 and I am 20. We have plans to be together for the long haul. I LOVE HIM but I have not said it yet. I really have the urge to say it but I'm nervous he won't be ready to reciprocate, even though he cares for me tremendously. I am going back to school in another state in April until June and we have decided to stay...
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Anonymous asked: I'm a college-aged guy with a preoccupied attachment style. My girlfriend is great and does more for me than I probably deserve... however, I constantly feel like she's not there enough. I want desperately to date someone extremely attached to me and extremely assertive (willing to make first moves) since I always end up being the one to initiate things. My girlfriend is understanding...
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hackysackthat asked: I've liked this guy ever since we started to get serious a little over a year ago. While we were talking, he stopped talking to me for another girl whom he is currently dating - for a year, so far. Since we've stopped talking, we've hung out with with our mutual best friend and every time he's flirted with me like the girlfriend doesn't exist. i didn't even know he...
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The Relationship Situation
So I really missed my chance with my crush, he liked me a lot I could tell, but I was too insecure and scared to show him how I felt. I wouldn’t keep the texts going, I didn’t ask to to hangout, I didn’t do anything… when the ball was in my court. His friend was messaging me too, and it was easy to msg that guy cuz i wasn’t interested....
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beauty-in-pink asked: I'm in a LDR since 5 years. Saturday night, my BF cheated on me for the 1st time. He kissed a girl, pictures were taken. He keeps on denying, but his friends betrayed him and even if they were told not to speak, they finally did. I hate his lies more than his betrayal. I wasn't expecting at all, but everyone's saying : because of the problems he's coping with these days, he can...
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Anonymous asked: I was flirting with a staff member at the club and he said, "I can't wait to bump into you off the clock (because he was working and worried he would get in trouble)". So, I gave him my number and he kissed my hand. This happened Saturday and he has yet to call or text. Was he not really that interested or has he just not got around to getting in contact?
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Anonymous asked: Nearly everyday I get coffee at my schools coffee shop. One day last week, the guy who usually take my order wrote a note on the side that said " You have lovely smile". What is the next step I should take with this? Should I say something to him the next time he takes my order or just let it go?
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Anonymous asked: I recently broke up with a guy I was dating for only 2 weeks. I broke up with him because I felt like he was taking the relationship too fast and I honestly didn't feel that attracted to him anymore. He still texts me a lot because he wanted to remain friends, but he keeps making me feel bad about breaking up with him. I liked some qualities about him, but I can't tell if I like him, or...
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Anonymous asked: I had a big break-up 2 years ago and i still love my ex but my best friend does too.I asked him if he still had feelings for me and he said no sorry so then i said then i will help you with my best friend because he sort of likes her nowthey are a couple (because of me ) and i am depressed!!! please help me
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stelsmoral asked: I have been talking to someone for over a year now. I have never been "with" someone for this long. He is extremely important to me and i can honestly say that i do love him. But we are not in a relationship. I have noticed that when things seem to be going well, he finds a fault in something or makes one that doesn't exist. It almost seems as though as he is pushing me away. Now i...
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Anonymous asked: My gf and I have been dating for a long time now, and no one, save only a handful of people, know. I want us to be able to tell our families one day with honesty but idk if I should talk with her about this or not. What should I do?
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Anonymous asked: The guy I like told me he still really likes me but he doesn't like me as much anymore (what does that mean?) and has been left me hanging for ages. He is the shy type and doesn't really make the move whatsoever, he's only ever put his arm around me, yet we have liked eachother for 6 months now. I don't understand, I really want something to happen with him, just something, but...
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Anonymous asked: I've been with my boyfriend for two years. I love him & we're the best together. I recently met a guy who's very handsome, cute & charming. He has a girlfriend of four years. We've been flirting a lot via text & we see each other once a week in our 3 hr lecture & a few times outside of class. I can tell that he's into me, I'm into him, and there is a...
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Anonymous asked: I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and since we're entering our mid twenties now he wants to propose. But it's becoming clearer as we grow that our goals in life are very different and we have almost nothing in common anymore besides our feelings for each other. So I'm doubting our ability to have a symbiotic relationship where we can actually work as a team since...
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I love my boyfriend. We have been together for 9 months. but i want a serious relationship but he wants to "just date". Is there any way we could work things out?
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The Relationship Situation Hey, met this guy through facebook. And, I live in the middle east and he lives in London. Ive mentioned that im going there to do my masters.And told him not to give up on me, just yet, i hve a yr and a half left. Before this even happend we’ve on the phone like once and twice, 2 yrs ago. And we’ve come again this valentines day and we’re talking only this time we’re...
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Anonymous asked: I'e been with my boyfriend 9 months & we have sex regular but last night he just stopped in the middle of us having it & said he doesn't think I put enough effort into it. I always try to make him satisfied in bed but it seems like I'm not good enough. I wondered what I could do to make it better for him as I know he loves me because he tells me all the time, it's just...
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Anonymous asked: A few years ago the love of my life ended up with another woman because of an age gap, I felt I was too young and needed something way less serious and he was at the point where he was ready to settle down. Recently I started talking to him again and I'm falling in love with him all over. The problem is that he's married but I have every reason to believe he feels the same. Do I continue...
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Anonymous asked: So my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now. We used to be physically intimate 2-3 times a week until last month. Last month, it just stopped happening and has not happened since. I am fine with not having sex because I love her, and she loves me. But i am scared because i can't stop thinking that she has lost interest in me. Or that she isn't attracted to me anymore. I...